I believe that being a part of a widowed community like this one, causes a very special bond. We are family. The fact that no one else understands us brings us together in a way that transcends distance, sex, and age as we congregate here in our little world that none of us ever wanted to be a part of. As we show compassion in helping each other we actually help ourselves. The love and kindness that we show others will always find its way back to us. There are basical